Bedroom Sex, the naked truth about sex in the bedroom

There is a study about Sex among older couples being published on the web right now.

It seems like in the countries where Men and Women are considered equal the sex is more satisfying than in Male centered cultures where the sexual behaviors are more oriented towards “procreation”.

Sexual satisfaction was highest in four countries — Austria, the United States, Spain, and Canada –(Damn! what happen to France?… too busy protesting in the streets, hehehe) and lowest in Japan and Taiwan. Countries such as Turkey, Egypt and Algeria ranked in the middle.

How satisfied are you?
I would say , very satisfied… my wife being from the country (Austria) where the peoples are the most satisfied with their sex life, I should be…

The U.S. National Institute on Aging has more about sexuality in later life.

read comments (0)

Bonjour, It’s been a while…

Today I want to talk about a new game that I’m sure will make your sex in the bedroom a bit more interesting…
It’s called “Bliss the Game for Lovers”. I downloaded the trial version and that same evening gave it a try with my wife Olga…

We started by giving some info about what we were wearing this evening, but it won’t let me wear sexy lingerie as a man… Even Olga had to tone down (she was wearing a leather outfit that I made for her). Although you you can customize Bliss by adding, removing, or modifying actions( I didn’t try it…).
Obviously this game is made for a more mainstream crowd, Bliss is a passionate, romantic game for lovers who want to improve their love life and their relationship. It is full of romantic ideas to increase the fun you have together. Read the rest of this entry »

read comments (0)

Info reassures men who think their penis is small

Wed Jun 29, 8:00 AM ET

NEW YORK (Reuters Health) - Men worried about having a small penis are usually pretty average, but have a false idea of what the normal size is, according to a report in the medical journal Urology.

This best way to reassure men with penile concerns is to educate them, the author of the report says. Men should know that a normal-sized penis is 1.6 inches or more when flaccid or 2.76 inches when stretched out.

The findings are based on a study of 92 patients who went to the andrology department at Cairo University Hospital in Egypt over a 2-year period complaining of a small-sized penis. Each subject provided a sexual history and completed a standard erectile function questionnaire.

Penile length and girth were assessed with a tape measure in both flaccid and fully stretched states. The men were asked what they considered a normal-sized penis and then were informed about the actual normal size.

Study author Dr. Rany Shamloul, at the University of Saskatchewan in Saskatoon, Canada, reports that all of the men met the thresholds for normal penis size and did not have erectile dysfunction.

However, on average, they estimated that the “normal” flaccid length should be to be 5.1 inches.

The education and measurement sessions solved the concerns of 79 men. The other 13 subjects still insisted that their member was too short, but with further psychosexual counseling, most were convinced otherwise.

“Men complaining of a short penis can be treated using the basic principles of sex education with objective methods of penile size evaluation,” Shamloul concludes. “This combination can correct any previous sexual misconceptions, relieve unnecessary anxiety concerning penile size, and decrease the desire to undertake still-to-be verified lengthening procedures.”

SOURCE: Urology, June 2005.

This should put to rest thoses who think about getting a bigger , longer penis thru programs advertized on dubious porn sites .

Save your money for some nice sexy lingerie for your wife or girlfriend OK!

read comments (1)

Dressing the Part . A Kinky Lingerie Spread
It’s time to play dress-up, so I make a few calls and gather my favorite kinky friends who don’t mind posing and preening for the camera. I like directing this number, gorgeous shapely bodies in styles of my choosing, prancing about half-clad for my enjoyment, a girl could learn to love this game! Here’s what I’m picking out for my scenes of the day:

Danika, the Dainty Demure Damsel . This girl always looks innocent, but you know she’s naughty under that coy exterior. For Danika, I’m picking out a lovely Satin Jaquard Strapless Corset, some Lace Top Thigh Hi stockings and the strappy Juliet Stiletto. It might be a slight change from her usual ruffled underthings, but I know she’ll wear it well (for as long as it takes the other girls to strip it off her). Kismet, the Colorful Kinky Kitten . Always one for a colorfully good time, Kismet dons the Lavender Love Wear X Cross Teddy, the color says innocent, the O-rings say Spank Me Harder Mistress! Add some Opaque Stay-up Stockings and some Patent Knee High Boots and I’m ready to add some red to those exposed parts! Purr. Goldie, the Gorgeous Gangbang Goddess . I can think of no one better to wear this Zip Front Corset, one of my personal favorites. It screams sex. Slip her into some Bow Lace Suspender Pantyhose and throw on a pair of Chantilly Lace-up Booty Shorts and she’s fierce and delectable! Bryce, the Buxom Bondage Babe .Bryce gets my vote for the hottest girl in a Leather Harness Bra & G Set. Something about that strappy leather high-collared halter with ample room for ample breasts to expose themselves sets me all atwitter. To add to the leather babe attire, I’ll fit her into a Leather Garterbelt w/Zipper and pair it up with some Sheer Cuban Thigh Hi stockings and a pair of Anita Rivet and Eyelet Pumps and she’s ready to grab a Black Suede Flogger and give those other girls some attention! And now to bring them all together in one glorious romp. Time to get the camera rolling! I think it’s time for a night out on the town with my girls! Damn it feels good to be a kinkster. Until next time, my deviant darlings, go out or stay in, but play play play!

read comments (0)

So what is this clitoris I keep hearing about…? Surprise, surprise, all women are born with a penis! Well… at least something very similar from a sexual and biological standpoint. The makeup of the clitoris and the penis is very similar – they’re made of the same tissue, both are erectile and hooded (at least for you uncircumcised guys out there), with a high concentration of nerve endings, and extremely sensitive to stimulation. The clit is the only anatomical organ with the sole function of providing sexual pleasure… not a bad job as far as I’m concerned! The only real difference is the average size of the portion of the organ that we can see when we’re poking around in the labial fields. Three fourths of the clit is tucked away… if you were to see it complete, the average clitoris is about four inches long, about the same as a flaccid penis.

When you’re probing around to find that little pink bud, gently pull back the lips (something that normally happens during arousal) and look for the happy button up at the top joining of the labia, usually hiding under a little hood of skin. As you become aroused, the hood pulls back, and blood flows to the clitoris, enlarging it and turning it a deep red – I told you girls could get a woody! The clitoris is one of the primary sources of erotic stimulation, and most women can achieve a clitoral orgasm more easily than a G-spot orgasm. Which brings us to the next question:

How can I make the clit happy? to be continued…

read comments (0)

History of Masturbation

Yes Indeed, May is National masturbation month. Who started this, I’m not sure but I think It was an Adult store from San Francisco back in 1995, correct me if I’m wrong…

Basically it was in response to the firing of Surgeon General Dr. Joycelyn Elders that same year, for saying that masturbation should be discussed as part of young peoples’ sex education.

Because many people still feel guilty about it, or feel they do it too much, or feel it’s a second-best substitute for “real” sex. We think it’s important to bring it out into the open and let people feel better about what they’re doing — and, for those who may not be doing it, we want to encourage it! Masturbation is, for many, the cornerstone to a healthy and good sex life. It isn’t second-best — it can give you the information and awareness you need to enjoy the rest of your sex life. Self love rules!

So what is this clitoris I keep hearing about…? To be continued…Tomorrow.

Masturbation Guide by Nina Hartley’s

read comments (0)

Adult Toys - What To Wear
Clipped Lace Bustier: Looking for the perfect gift for a special bride? Surprise her with this elegant Clipped Lace Bustier. The bustier is constructed with seven bones, hook-n-eye closure, and detachable garters. Matching thong included. This Clipped Lace Bustier would be a great bridal gift.
Or you could wear this Lace up front corset

Simply enchanted will be your lover when he see’s you in this Lace-up Corset. The boning in the corset adds a slimming affect to the body. If you are looking for a more romantic look this is the outfit for you. Matching g-string included. Available in sizes SML-LRG.

I’ll wear it anytime, my husband would love it too, my birthday is coming soon, I’ll work on him…and I think I know how…

Olga

read comments (1)

Adult Toy - Kama Sutra of Sexual Positions DVD

For many ancient lovers, sex was primordial, a cosmic dance. Sexual passion was a celebration. Sex was a path to rapture. Kama Sutra of Sexual Positions brings to life the best sexual positions from the ancient text of: Kama Sutra - 4th century India, Ishimpo - 10th century Japan and China, Ananga-Ranga - 13th century India, The Perfumed Garden - 16th century North Africa. Through a unique blend of rotic temple scuptures, ancient passionate dances, a dn mystical poetry from lovers around the world, this film brings together The Kama Sutra of Sexual Positions, East Indian Dance for the Beloved, and African Full Moon Dance to capture the magic of passionate love.
I love it

Olga

read comments (0)

Le Sang des Autres
Nothing to do with our bedroom, just a link to a french site that I think is worth the visite.
It translate as ” the Blood of others”.
Let us know what you think…

read comments (0)

LUBES AND OILS:

* Body Paints »
* De-Sensitizers & Sensitizers »
* Lotion & Potion Kits »
* Lubricants »
* Massage Accessories »
* Samplers »
* Warming & Flavored »

Seductive Sensations Await You in the Adult Toy Chest…
Prepare for Passion

Assault your senses with potions that will arouse your body, excite your mind, and leave you aching with desire.

Imagine shivering, as fingertips skim the surface of your smooth oiled skin. You hear a soft exhale of breath and the oil suddenly heats. All that exists are the hands that are massaging you, manipulating you, exciting you. Completely relaxed, you are floating in a sea of erotic sensations. You gasp, as you experience the sensation of cool, slick lubricant, very slowly sliding down the cheeks of your ass. You are tortured by anticipation, your body is begging for release. You have been prepared for passion; you know what cums next…

Pleasure can be such sweet agony. Whether you are a Sensual Sadist or a seductive submissive, in the Adult Toy Chest you will find everything you will need to satisfy your hedonism.

When you are in the mood for slow, sensual extended foreplay, you will find the perfect Lotions, Potions, Dusts and Creams just waiting for you in the Adult Toy Chest. When you know only The Best will do choose from the exotic Kama Sutra Line of Sensual Products. When you want it to last all night, use Desensitizing Cream to prolong your pleasure. Multiply her pleasure with Sensitizing Gel. Feeling a creative urge, make your own masterpiece with Body Paint. You can never have enough Lube on hand. Adult Toy Chest carries all of your favorites; Astroglide, Eros, I.D., Slippery Stuff, Wet and many others. Everything you need is here, so decide if you want to Stroke it, Poke it, Probe it, Enlarge it, Control it, or Excite it.

And cum prepared for a night of excruciating pleasure

read comments (0)